Hang in there. Maybe she's just asserting a little more independence in the form of finances. From what I gather in reading, this is a step to getting herself in a better place...which could be a step in the direction we're all hoping for.
Stay positive. 2008 will be the year of the turnaround. I believe it for both of us.
Me:37 WAW:35 M:10 T:15 Ds:9, 5 She Dropped Bomb:9/02/07 Both still at home