Mike, Your wife is no longer entitled to the benefits of having a husband. You're making her life way too easy. Why would she want to commit? That would mean she'd have to put forth some effort? She gets you, and all your help, and doesn't have to give anything? That doesn't mean that you ignore her if she asks for help, it simply means that you're not ALWAYS available, sometimes she needs to be told, "sorry. I have other plans. Can't make it tonight." -THAT will make her head spin!
Give her something to think about. She doesn't miss you. She hasn't had a chance to.
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."
