thank you woog, i think my dbing is going well. i believe w is scrutinizing me to see if my changes are heartfelt and lasting. things have been very friendly and easy at home. trying to input what db coach told me the other day. makes great sense. keeping my expectations for w very low. very hard to do. definitely a test of my faith. take each day as it comes. each interaction as a chance to put my faith into action. not pushing her at all. db coach said i need to compliment her with exuberance, not like i would if it was my mother. tried this morning , sort of flubbed it. she did say thank you. better luck next time.
m-54 w-44 children-4 bomb-sept 21 2007 t-21 m-20yrs bomb-sept 23 2007 divorced but not giving up hope, not yethttp://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...rue#post1224023
