<rant> I am a little disturbed right now. W had apparently come over to my apartment at lunch time to look for the d*mned teddy bear named after her OM. So I forgot to pack it up and bring it back with me when I dropped our S's off last evening -- sue me!
I am so peeved that she thinks it's so friggin' important to retrieve that stuffed toy -- they each have plenty of other such comforts, each with a lot more sentimentality than this new, hideous thing she bought for S7 on impulse last week -- that she has to drive up six miles one way to invade my apartment. Really, it's not even what I would call a very adorable bear at all -- the key thing for W is that it's named after OM. So this thing obviously means more to her than S7.
I have not said anything yet to her about this, but I am steamed. I discovered it when I came back at lunch and saw that, apparently, they (W and S3) also left my Christmas tree lights on before they left. (Reminds me that its way past time to take it down. Only left it up for our S's.) And the boys' bedroom was somewhat ransacked to a point too. I checked my voicemail, and W had left a message saying she was going to retrieve the item from my apartment "if I don't mind." But she didn't wait for me to say yay or nay, I noticed.