we had a LONG r talk last night that went well. by well i mean that we both got to express ourselves without hurting the other too much. i think...
he didn't leave though, so...
that's cool
i think we need to check out 5 languages... we were talking about our definitions of love last night and i was somewhat remiss about the difference between us.
it's ok and it's good
i mean, ppl are different, right?
h said (and maybe you men can confirm) that LOVE is a bond, something to protect, something to die for (he also said he wanted to think about it for a couple of days)
for me, it's something totally different... for me it's giving and caring and helping and doing
i guess it's not all that different
for H love is giving PROTECTION for me love is giving AFFIRMATION and SUPPORT (and maybe even my personal self, like telling ppl about my experiences so they know me... and feel like I trust them. make sense?)
