Lou I rather think it would be more productive to think about the hot times both LFL's had with each other, than to be thinking about a third party.
LFL Sorry Lou. Ideally, yes. But realistically, that has never and will never work for us.
I'm not about to go back to passionless sex once every 2 months Are you saying you two never had hot times when dating or first M?
I didn't want you to replay the sex once every two months tapes, that sucks, big time.
For me, thinking about the sex we had right before BB got PG with kid #2, works better than thinking of some popular woman. In my mind, who would want to F Paris or Jolien, or who ever. I don’t want to mentally share a woman with anyone else and I don’t want to mentally stir someone else’s vanilla.
I think of what I have my dick in at the moment, how the sex used to be hot, what is happening right now, what is working for me, and read the clues BB gives off. Maybe I don’t multi task well and thinking about OP takes away from what is at the moment.
Of course, thinking about the posters that have gone years w/o sex gets me thinking I don’t want that to happen to me or BB. All of that unused nookie, bad, bad, bad. Is that an example of a third party? I say it is an example of “ I don’t what that to happen to me” or an example of vicarious learning.
Anyway it is great to hear about all of the hot action LFL. If the fantasy works, good deal.
Corri he doesn't want to step out of the way he views himself (older generation, squarish, simple man). Simple i will agree with.
Older generation, yes in age and some values. Maybe i expect similar values from BB. Doesn't say she has to feel the same way.
Squarish, OK but also everyone knew where things stood.
