Hope you had a good NYE. I know we are all looking forward to a fresh new year.
I would recommend not telling people extremely close to you. My mom knew, and was constantly bugging me about what was going on and why i was putting up with it. I eventually started telling her we were working on it and i would let her know if something changed. My sister just thought i should get a divorce and start over. She'd tell me "you're young and pretty and some guys love kids. you could find someone else better" God bless her heart, but she is so lost. like lanzo said, if you have to talk to someone (many need to) find a person that can understand what you are doing to fight for your M. Like your friend that you stayed with. He'd get that it's worth it to fight.
IC - definately recommend. It will help you deal with your issues. Might as well work those out now while you have the time.
Take care.
If i can't fall in love... I'd like to fall in chocolate! ~ Author Unknown
