Thanks again! I will try not to analyze and give up control but that is so hard of course! I have put a call into a local therapist who is supposed to be back in town tomorrow and am planning to ask for ADs which I think I really could use now. My brother is going in for brain surgery this weekend, found out he has a brain tumor right before Christmas.
My husband says he is also going to call the therapist we saw the one time and see him for individual appointments for himself and tell him more of the truth, that the OW is married, etc. Do you think us getting individual counseling will help the situation in any way? He won't do marriage counseling of course. (Yeah, I'm trying to analyze again, I know...)
