Well, I figured out she transferred credit card debt in her name a month or so ago, I have access to my card but obviously not hers. I just do not see how things could turn so bad so fast...Everyone says to move on. I don't want to...but perhaps they have been right all this time...I cannot believe I am in this frickin' sinking boat...Darkness and detachment one way or the other I'll get my life back. Sure hope I can have it with my 5D and maybe her.