Sorry to bust in here, Char, but it appears that Dreama would like to stay on the boards with a little more anonymity. I'd like to suggest joining under her own name. Dreama, the folks you feel you are getting the most help from, such as charcoal, can be told of your new name through a private message once you join. You need a sounding board just as much as Floyd, and a lot of us would like to be able to be there for you. Just a suggestion.