I dont think she is fence sitting on anything...I dont know any of the terms in the paperwork.
She has a couple very manipulating friends, thats for sure. we also have some great friends that have given her advice to try and work it out, but she wont listen to anyone with that idea, not her family or even other close friends.
she wants to talk....but she has not taken into consideration one thing I have said or done in the past 4 months. She will say it's about the kids. If it was about the kids, then she should put forth some effort at what we have discovered and allow herself experience us now that we really know what we both need. If we can give each other what we each are needing, that is powerful. It can start with one person. Her allowing me to give to her. When she feels good about that, she will give back.
One thing that came up in our talk yesterday is she said it takes two of us to make it work, to create change in our relationship. I said, sorry...takes only one, because you would have to react to it. As long as one of us is interested, i guess there is still hope in a way.
Laurie; if youre reading this, I have a session scheduled with you Thu am...thanks...
