true, but after reviewing my calendars from the past year, i have come to realize that i have sex 1-3 times a month,which i figure would average 2.5 times a month. but let me just say that in order for me to get it more than once a month, i have to pull teeth, so the sex really isn't good as compared to when i get it that one time right after her period. it's rare if i get it more than twice a month; it's even uncertain getting it twice a month. twice a month occurs two weeks after our first time. it may be the norm, but it still feels like once a month, because even when she gives it to me the second time, it feels as if i am asking for so much from her! that's the real problem: she making all kinds of excuses, making it seem as if she has to lay cement, always telling me lets make it a quickie.