I envy you that. I don't envy the sitch that brought it on. You and IC have a connection that your post and his show very clearly. That connection is why IC's response was what it was and it naturally deflated your bravado. Cry honey then tell him what an azzhole he is and that he can NEVER do this again. Speak the words that your body was telling him and listen to what his body told you - I love you, never stopped.
Cry honey then tell him what an azzhole he is and that he can NEVER do this again. Speak the words that your body was telling him and listen to what his body told you - I love you, never stopped.
Jeez Karen, are you a mind reader or what?
I pretty much had that conversation with him this morning...the one I was trying to convey with my thwarted attempted at sex last night...called him every name in the book...A to Z...twice! (I'm sure I left some bruises on his chest as well) and then just held him and cried. I've been fairly certain that he'll never do this again..but between last night and this morning, any lingering doubts are being erased. Doesn't necessarily make anything easier but instead of stumbling along lost...I at least have some direction of where I would like to be someday. He DOES love me and his actions are saying that loud and clear.
He DOES love me and his actions are saying that loud and clear.
Good for you IC!! Besides recognizing what you did wrong and owning up to it, this is what your responsibility is to your wife - to let her know how much you love her and to keep those actions going!!
IC, Raven and I are taking a break from bowl games since Illinois is being blown out by SC. I actually spent the afternoon rooting for Michigan if you can believe it!! They really tried to give the game away didn't they??!! 4 turnovers - are you kidding me?
Anyway good luck to you and Miss IC in 2008!!!
But what is happiness except the simple harmony between a man and the life he leads? ~Albert Camus
As the Gator on the bulletin board I must say - if the Gators can't take advantage of four turnovers and get the job done. Well, they got what was coming. I guess Tim Tebow found out how Troy Smith felt last year. Win the Heisman and have to play one more game - oops, a trophy doesn't win the game for you and everyone cannot rely on the one guy to win it either. Oh well, there is always next season.
Well Karen, you're not the only Gator fan on the board.....Miss IC is a huge Gator's fan...yeeeaaaah, big dilemma in the IC household especially given the somewhat recent turn of events. Of all the college teams out there, they just had to match my team vs. her team....Nice Move NCAA...Real Nice!
Damn Tebow...sheesh, were did they find that freak of nature?
Fearless, Don't run too far! Got you on the schedule for next fall...new coach, staff, quarterback, running back, receivers, basically a whole new team {who am I kidding!}
I knew I liked Miss IC. H is an Ohio State fan. I don't guess you can claim sports induced LD can you????? After all, my team whipped his in both football and basketball last year and well, we havent' had any for about a year.....
I knew I liked Miss IC. H is an Ohio State fan. I don't guess you can claim sports induced LD can you????? After all, my team whipped his in both football and basketball last year and well, we havent' had any for about a year.....
Karen
Ohhhh well sh!t Karen, you answered all kinds of questions right there! An Ohio State fan...tsk, tsk, tsk..Karen! how could you???? I took you as being smarter than that (as IC ducks a flying object tossed by Fearless }
You could be onto something...1st that bowl game azz whooping last January...baby boy in February? Then March madness and another azz whooping {IC shaking his head} You got your work cut out for ya girl!
Turn him onto Red Wing's hockey....real testosterone rush and hey!....they rarely lose!
You might even like it! Miss IC's got the hots for a couple of them which sometimes works to my advantage
I would be happy to talk to IC by email, at some point. Its in my profile. Im honestly not real worried that he wont be able to address it, as soon as he sees it.
BF,
Sent you a few e-mails...I think. Maybe I'm not getting your encrypted e-mail address right.
Anyways, if you get this and have time..... RabidWolverine@peoplepc.com
You know what is worse than living with a Buckeye?? Having that Buckeye try to get your 16 year old interested in their school over yours!!!!!!! H is already trying to poison DS16's mind and has planned a trip to the campus this summer and he has even had the nerve to say that OSU girls are better looking than UF girls. Has he never seen the "Girls of the SEC" pictorial???
You know what is worse than living with a Buckeye?? Having that Buckeye try to get your 16 year old interested in their school over yours!!!!!!!
Thankfully Raven had no 1A college football alliance so he's fine with me "poisoning" his kids' minds with Buckeye talk. On our way home from the Nutcracker a few weeks ago the four of us were doing the "O-H-I-O" cheer. I think we'll take S5 and D9 to a game in September and that might hook them for good!! My dad started taking me to games when I was 6 so I was definitely hooked from the beginning.
By the way Karen Ohio State really is a great school so it wouldn't be that bad!! And when there are 60,000 students, you know there are PLENTY of good looking women to be found. The great thing about Ohio State's size is that there is so much opportunity. The students and professors are friendly and accessible. My parents both went there so I was "doomed" from the start. My dad always wondered why I bothered applying to any other schools...
But what is happiness except the simple harmony between a man and the life he leads? ~Albert Camus
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