Was2sad - I know you don't come here often, so you may never see this, but Thank you! Someone recommended the Mars and venus book and I picked it up on Monday (haven't started it yet as i'm in the middle of another one). I'm very eager to read all 3. Pretty much anything I can do at this point that anyone thinks will help i'm willing to do. Getting H to read them as well could be a major task, but I'll try as you suggested, point out some funny examples and maybe he'll take an interest. I know that there are major communication issues between us. I didn't seem like there always were, but it's obvious now that was the case. I'm hoping to spend the rest of my life in this M, so I'm glad at least that I'm working on it now rather than not realizing now and having this come up down the road when it might be too late. Again. Thank you so very much!

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heading to bed early and it would be ok if he wanted to watch tv a while. However, you would probably just start without him and if he wasn't too late, you'd probably be ready.
I'll try that. I don't know how he'd respond, but it will certainly be interesting to find out. \:D

Transformer - Thanks for stopping by. I've decided to hold off on books that relate strictly to sex for now. I think it makes him feel like he's not doing a good enough job and the last thing i want to do right now is take another shot at his self esteem. I'll probably read it though. Maybe after a little more time it'll be something i can share with him. Thanks! \:\)

If i can't fall in love... I'd like to fall in chocolate! ~ Author Unknown

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