Corri because in MY fantasy, I'm supposed to get everything that I want, exactly as I want it... it's my fantasy, after all, and it isn't hard AT ALL for you to do what **I** want.
Corri, this is a big part of a LD's motivation or lack there of.
I think BB wants what she wants and anything outside that box she might do, but it has a price or causes her to think/act Lou, you are on your own.
Hairdog said Ms HD had a picture about women being chattel. BB's big thing is a little different. She is saying women do things to please men/H but don't do enough to please them self.
Then there is “things should be easy” and pets are less work, more predictable, you can say no, or do what you/she wants w/o anyone wanting something different. IE do what makes you/her happy
