I called MIL on New Year's eve got machine and hung-up. She called me back. I told her happy new year's, but I wanted to show her detachment from WAW and this I did very well. We talked about what 5D and I had been doing. I asked about her health, her son, some of her relatives. Told her about things I was getting involved in such as dance class, people I was meeting, and enrolling 5D in ballet. I was able to tell her how I discovered why I've been unhappy for years and what I was doing now to insure my happiness. She would comment good often. All things that she will tell WAW, but I cannot do. So, I took my one-day opportunity to have a great conversation with MIL. I told her that I missed her, that she was very important to me, and hoped her new year's goes well. More things that are important to WAW. My WAW's name never came up. Doesn't necessarily get the WAW to call me but maybe I get a brownie point.
Sure hard not wanting to be with WAW...Seems so solvable, I guess the next question is how long do I stay dark...Anyone with pointers? A month?
