Recently separated again, What about new years?

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I'm all for men helping with the kids/dinner (actually, I would kill for one of those! lol) but I think you might want to not be so available, not be there every single time, perhaps she'll actually appreciate what you do when you are not around (or perhaps not). My point is, GAL and make YOURself whole first, make yourself scarce sometimes, give her a chance to see what it is to be be a single parent, you do not, I repeat, do not have to make her life easier out of guilt.

I always suggest exercise to ALL, it lifts your spirits --and does wonders for your muscles!., it is something just for you, join a class, go running, do something for yourself. If your simple invite made her feel so pressured, then some space should help defuse things, clear the air a bit.

Take care Mike, you are in my prayers))