SueS... that's exactly what it is. She has agreed many times that she needs counseling. She just doesn't do it. That's big for her all over the place. Her mom schedules appointments for her all the time. Dr, lawyer, it was her mom that stepped up and sold the mare. I can understand why W dragged her feet with that, but it fits her profile. Oddly enough, she is quick to schedule the D's for the Dr. I do like that.. she has good instinct there. Not too often she will schedule an appt for them and nothing is wrong. Uncanny really.
It all goes back to her being immature.. she's never grown up and been responsible for herself. That's her and her mother's fault.
Probably part of the issue between us.. there were times where I would try to make her accountable for herself.. she doesn't like it. Just a few quick examples:
Medication - both taking and refilling. She would go days before I'd figure out she was off and she'd say "Oh yeah.. I need them refilled" DR - would complain daily about stuff and never go to doc. School - Always wanted help with school (more like you do it and I'll turn it in.) Now has turned to buying papers online. Money - Spends it (on nails, etc) then complains when she has none.. borrows from Mom for groceries etc.
