Wife in Major MLC...Looking to Vent

[bombardier50]

Bworl, how you've been able to hold up through your sitch without completely self-destructing is, to me, simply amazing. I've got a lot to learn from ya.

The selfishness, to me, is just one of the things that baffles me to no end. All I hear is "It's time for me" and "I have a right to be happy", blah, blah, blah. No consideration for anyone else, it's all about her. The transformation is just remarkable.

Sleeper, hear you loud and clear. In weeks past, I would cry in my pillow morning and night. I don't do that so much anymore. I've kinda gone numb, and I'm starting to become better at the whole detachment approach. Workin' on it...anyway.

As I'm sure you've all heard a million times before, my S used to be loving, caring, passionate. Half the time couldn't keep her hands off me. I was in heaven...20+ years. Now, haven't even got so much as a hug in months. Hurts like hell...