All Hope is lost/Help - Part 2

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...without consulting him about his plans. Should I have asked him whether he was coming to SIL for NY? I feared rejection, so I didn't. Why couldn't he have said he had being invited and wanted to come?
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He's just being a big baby, come on!" a meal for one and going to bed at 9?" that is just a cry for attention. I think you did right, you should go about your business and make plans, he left, you really dont' have to consult with him--well, there are the kids, he could've just as well call if he wanted to spend time with them. He WAS invited and knew you were invited, it's a no brainer.

You are doing great, he's obviously slowly seeing his own weaknesses and not liking it one bit, he sounds very insecure.