Be very proud that you two ladies are working on your marriages & friendships with your H's now.
I wish I would have left my H years ago!!! He said it also. We wasted alot of time. My kids went through alot of crud with mom & dad. They are okay and they always felt loved & cared for but gee if H & I had really committed to renewing our friendship years ago.....oh well. Anyway hope you both are doing well, Mat & Floyd also. I just had lunch with my daughter. We laughed alot. Her dad called and we actually got in a yelling match as to who loved him more! Kip Yes It does sound rather mushy, wasn't always that way ladies. Thats why I know if the guys hold on, give you some space & peace that it would pay off.
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