New Year Phoenix, can you make it Happy too? I am sorry to hear you so down and seemingly focused on what MAY be going to happen. Remember that article I refered to quite often a year or two ago Take Divorce off the Table? I'll see if I can round it up again. I actually printed it and gave a copy to H to read. There's another thing too that was sent to me, The Non Divorce Divorce. It's about people staying together for the convenience of M. I wonder if that is H and me.
Is W still sleeping on the couch?
What I really want to ask you is if you know the laws in your state about S or D? If your W does file will you have to leave the house? what are the 'rights' as the father? If all the signs are that W is soon to pull the trigger you should be thinking about taking the offense and being sure YOU are protected and your kids. I so hate to bring this stuff up to you but we all know that safe and sorry is better than just sorry.
(((PS))) Chin up, my friend.
Live your life while you are still living. Riding the trail less traveled.
