First, How are you feeling physically.. I hope your ok. Thank goodness for friends!!
Wow.. I just don't know what to say.. Holy crap. What a basta*d.
Im so so so sorry, I cannot believe the lying that goes on with him... You must be so hurt to find something of that nature.. although I don't know what either means, it obviously has to do with sex.
At this point, I don't know how you can continue with living with his lies.. I know you have been giving him space.. and its obvious he is not using it to better himself but to be with her.
This is not going to help your stitch. You are going to have to totally detach from him.. only to have contact with him concerning the kids and that's all.
No, you can't control what he does, but him living with you and you being tempted to snoop ( (which yes everyone does) I won't give you a 2x4 because Ive done it myself and the way I feel is I would want to know if he is a compulsive liar and if Im being taken for a ride. ) Its better if he isn't around, because you know when you do snoop its only going to hurt you.
Oh I feel sick for you right now.
I'll be available later to talk if you want to call me.. i have some work to do, so call me around 3pm my time.
((((((hugs))))))
tal
me: 37 H: 44 Married for 18 years this june S7 S3 porn issues, and much more... since 7/06
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