I guess I forgot to look at the positive side to that info. Now that OM's kids are no longer attending the school, I don't have to worry about them caravaning in the mornings (D5 told me there were times when D5 and OM's son would ride in his car while D3 and his daughter would ride in W's car) and it's one of the aspects of reconciliation (should that ever occur) that I don't have to worry about.

She was like a High Schooler when OM would drop or pick up kids from school. That's also some time together lost.

Also.. MIL just called to ask about what kind of insurance we have... she's scheduling a counseling appt for the W.

YAY!!!