I hear what your saying about "investment." In my case, after 23 years of investment, I'm finding it's brutally hard to let go and relinquish any idea of being able to control the ride. Still working on that, but getting better...

Me: 51
W: 50
M 24 yrs
EA: since Apr 06
S22, S26, S28
ILYBNILWY:Nov 07

"It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything." Tyler Durden