There is only me

[Jeanette1120]

{{{Amy}}}

First off, there is NEVER "only me". Your drowning yourself with responsibility. We talked about this yesterday. I'm sorry I wasn't able to talk longer.

I thought we were on the right track. Your husband is not willingly going to step up and talk tp amyone at this point nor is he going to have an epiphany that what he is doing is going to hurt someone sooner or later.

I thought what we were speaking of was good. The talking to a officer privatly on this matter and notifying when/if he drives with your daughter while drinking again. This way it is not OBVIOUSLY your doing, and then you can step in and take control. He WILL have to undergo counseling and pay some heavy prices. But no price is to heavy to save a life or maybe 2.

The problem seems difficult right now, but once you handle it, it won't seem as bad as you thought. Your daughter will not need to know the reasoning about what happened, they will have just happened and you will be there to pick the pieces up, once again.

You can do this. Once you do it, and get it over with, you will be able to sleep again. Pray on it for a few days and watch closely for signs that will give you the direction. Remember, God can only guide, you must make the first move.

Prepare youself mentally for the biggest battle, the one with the most to be gained!

HUGS

Jeanette