You need to learn to stop analyzing the situation. Stop trying to predict the future. I am not without empathy, as I (and most others here) have been there myself. I remember asking the same questions: What if...? How long....? Where do...? Why does...?
You cannot control your husband's behavior, so stop concerning yourself with it. As I have said to another DBer (and myself): You gotta let 'em be idiots. Free him to his own stupidity.
This is not easy work. As I said on my earlier post, this DBing business is not for weak people. I know you can do it. Continue to visit and post. Read other threads as well. You are doing well so far. Keep it up.
