Burg:

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I think Corri was talking about telling stories, fantasy type stories, during sex, rather than the more direct talking given as examples.


Yes, exactly. \:\) \:\)

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Do what works right?
No, I think the third party fantasy, or whatever this is, is doing the trick.


LFL:

Yes... and my point is... that THIS may only work for so long, but that doesn't mean that something else wouldn't be just as effective, if you stay willing to explore and try things that may turn your H on, and NOT return to the mind set that he needs to give you sex in the way you like it. Meaning, HE becomes YOUR focus, and in finding/providing what really turns him on, you actually GET what you want.

ETA: Now... compare this to Lou's current mind set... what is he passing up potentially exploring with BB simply because he doesn't want to step out of the way he views himself (older generation, squarish, simple man).


Last edited by Corri; 01/02/08 02:22 PM.