As you know my H never left but he DID want wooing. He felt that I had stopped loving him. I didn't chase him or pay him enough attention. I certainly didn't massage his ego enough. My H wanted to be 'wanted' by me.
It seems from all your posts etc that your H wants to be involved and keep communicating. As long as that is ok for you then I would keep doing that. Unless I am missing something here hasn't your husband tried to include you in things? He tried to get you on to the holiday at the last minute didn't he?
Assuming one another thinks certain things can lead to problems- don't assume things. Be as clear as you can be when you communicate. It strikes me that you are trying to read your H's mind and that leads to misunderstandings which then cause problems. I know that you are doing this with the very best of intentions but it does seem to create complications. Does this make sense?
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
