I think you may be talking about some kind of existential angst.
That is most definitely a possibility.
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Quite frequently, it isn't necessary (and rarely possible) to know the "real" person you are with in order to have great sex. Sometimes you can just touch palms, smile and signal "Human" and celebrate what you have in common rather than what makes you unique.
Mo: Of course this can happen. My comments are directly related to when there are problems.
Lil: I know I am being confusing... I'm not trying to be... swear. I'm actually trying to figure out the clearest way to get to my point... and I'm not doing too good a job.
Burg: I'm sorry, I misread the meaning of your question... how is reality different than differentiation and perspective control...
I'm not sure there is a difference at all... but I think there is noticeable difference in how it feels when this notion is strictly applied to sex... (given two people who are or who have been, experiencing SSM.)
Even the ICs come in and out of whatever it is I think I might be talking about here... their PBS encounter... their encounter when she came home and just wanted to fck him in the dark, and it ended up being something different than she intended... precisely because it IS so real and honest?
Do you see what I'm getting at? Or am I still being completely confusing... ???
