Maybe I am square, as they used to say in the 60's, but I rather think it would be more productive to think about the hot times both LFL's had with each other, than to be thinking about a third party.
Sorry Lou. Ideally, yes. But realistically, that has never and will never work for us. I think I've hit on somthing big here and I need to run with it a while. I'm not about to go back to passionless sex once every 2 months when I've had my H f@ck me like I've wanted to be f@cked for so long. Do what works right? No, I think the third party fantasy, or whatever this is, is doing the trick.