I think Corri was talking about telling stories, fantasy type stories, during sex, rather than the more direct talking given as examples. For instance, if Mr.LFL truly gets turned on by thinking about LFL being with another man sexually, he might really get into it if, during sex, LFL erotically and breathily described a fantasy sexual encounter between herself and some safely unavailable man. Brad Pitt, or whomever.
Pay attention Burg. It's Jake all the way, not Brad. And as for telling him a story in bed....maybe...I don't know. Come to think of it, I bet he'd get sort of angry (which is what I want) and be willing to "take me in hand" if he got jealous in the moment. hmmm...need to process this more..