Thanks all for your advice! I have been trying to act happy, get a life, and when I lost my temper yesterday, calmed down as soon as I could. More questions: My husband is acting weird; drinking vats of coffee & diet coke, sleeping 5-7 hours instead of his old 8. He woke up in the middle of the night last night couldn't sleep; constantly emails her, calls her, sees her I think almost every day (she is a married woman with kids also). He is a "sober" addict and attends AA weekly, but has had a string of sports addictions instead for the past 20 years: running, triathlons, kayaking, billiards, etc, and I think this girlfriend is another addiction in the list, though he says he is in love with her. How does that affect DB'ing? Will the affair last shorter (burn itself out quicker) or last longer (forever) do you think? And my husband's weird behavior any ideas on that? Thanks for any and all advice!!!
