Sorry about the big bag of suck Brit. My H was very withdrawn the last couple of days. I'm guessing that w/ the New Year the WAS are trying to think. I'm speculating that their confusion is just swirling around in their heads. Maybe that is why your W lied about being w/ the OM. Wow watching a movie at his house, wait his MOM'S house. I am guessing that W didn't have much fun at all. My h left on NYeve at 8 and I have no idea where or what he did. H was so sick that night that I'm assuming he just went somewhere and slept.
Now you know me well by now Brit and you know I make more than my share of mistakes. But it does seem to me like you have been contacting W more and more lately. I agree with you that it is time to lay off. I'm glad you sent the e=mail to you instead of W.
As for the journals, I admit I would have done the same. One thing I read into it is that it is confirmation that your W's problems are much deeper than your R. She really needs a lot of help and she isn't getting that yet.
My H was very withdrawn the last couple of days. I'm guessing that w/ the New Year the WAS are trying to think. I'm speculating that their confusion is just swirling around in their heads. Maybe that is why your W lied about being w/ the OM. Wow watching a movie at his house, wait his MOM'S house. I am guessing that W didn't have much fun at all. My h left on NYeve at 8 and I have no idea where or what he did. H was so sick that night that I'm assuming he just went somewhere and slept.