VIsta,

I behaved like your wife for a very very long time.
I was the WAW. My h just blew me away with his response to my
leaving. I was married to him for 21 years.
Geez you would have thought we could have figured out away to communicate!!
Anyway his 7 months of persistence and pursuing me (I know he
was alousy DB'er) is what won me over. I couldn't figure out away to let him know I was softening. Think I wanted the Cave Man thing I was a fool.
Oh well but I learned. Don't give up and keep working on you.
Sorry I'm not any help.

Kip

"Those who don't read, have no advantage over those who can't" Mark Twain