My older daughter and I were talking on the phone last night (she's a senior in high school in another state and very mature for her age, always has been) and we think the younger daughter has issues with either men in general or me (her mother) with a man. She was six when her father and I separated (I won't go into details, but there was a real reason for divorce then and all my kids have thanked me for it). There was only one man of the men that I dated from the time her father and I divorced until now that she liked. That was because he was too young for me, too immature and played video games with her. Any other man she has disliked before she even got to know them. She has always been happy when any relationship ended.
Everyone just keeps jumping to conclusions when I say I am talking to my husband. I'm loosing lots of support.
