It was a major bone of contention with us also. I felt like someone else needed something from me and I was tired of giving all the time. The little girl in me also wanted my H to desperately fight to win me back. Which he did for 7 months and I was super B****! Wish i could take alot of that stuff back but I just wanted him to leave me alone and take the kids so I could chill out and think. It never happened or if he did take them it would be because I threw a fit to get him to leave I know you want him to win you back. But you both are equally hurting. After XOW came into our world I just wanted my H to slow down and think, not react. SO he never did pursue me....I still hurt but not about our old R. I still need to calm down and I'm getting better. Still have to see skank, still feel guilty about calling her that but its true. She was evil. He was so friggen stupid and oh well I was an idiot too.
But anyway life is okay. Honey you are married and really even though you may not like it you are his ride. He's yours too. You need to meet those needs of his and vise versa. I wish it was all easy and its not but the renewed friendship is worth it. Think I will shut up..... Kim
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