Sorry you found yourself in this situation, but I'm glad you found us. It's still early on, I wouldn't expect him to warm up just yet, so don't get upset if you don't see anything. He still sees you everyday so really he has not had a chance to miss you. I'm glad you're getting a car, now you need to get a life. THAT'S what's going to get him thinking.

Also remember, he's going to say ALL KINDS of very painful things to you. Things that will hurt you so deeply. You HAVE to remember, that you cannot believe ANYTHING he says right now, and only 50% of what you see.

Keep us updated and we'll help the best that we can.


Me 36
Husband 35
D5
S2
separated:
10/29/07-present
Served divorce papers 1/22/09
"When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."