I confide in a co worker who went through a D 2 years ago and his W is on the point of re marrying. He regrets giving up on the Db techniques so he his fully supportive in my efforts to save my M. If you do need to confide in people keep it to a minimum. I feel I need to talk to someone everyday especially as feedback to my sitch is very slow.
At the moment you will still need to initiate all of the meetings, once W starts to like what she sees in you then she will make the effort, but be aware this could take a long time.
Life in limbo land is tough, frustrating, weary and tiring, I know all of these feelings, but the only way out is to live through it. GAL & PMA work hard on these. If you hit any lows where you feel like giving up just shout out on this board we'll be there for you.
Me:50 W: 49 T:20yrs M: 14 yrs D:11 2005 PA 2006: EA (2003 : 2007) 2007: April ILYBNILWY Aug PA, Sept Separate 2008: Feb Piecing 2009 Limbo 2011: Separated (same house) 2013: Divorcing
