Hello I don't know your sitch. I do alot of Charcoal's. We tried alot of the same things..... What I meant by meet his needs? I was talking about sex and by having fun I meant don't do it grudgingly SP? but be sincere. There is no doubt that Mat loves Charcoal. Yet he is insecure and he's also being pursued by other women.
So hey since Charcoal knows she loves him and she wants to work on the marriage....well sex can't be used as a weapon. It's a connection and even though my h loves our kids....well I did most of the work. He's helped alot though lately.
I really don't know what else to say except I was a WAW. Alot of our issues from the past haven't really been addressed, but Vista the thing is I don't care. We are becoming friends again. I don't have time to waste being mad and upset over small stuff.
Kim
My old threads are in newcomers under KIP. As in Knowledge Is Power Charcoal had problems with calling a girl Kip.
Peace
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