I think Corri was talking about telling stories, fantasy type stories, during sex, rather than the more direct talking given as examples. For instance, if Mr.LFL truly gets turned on by thinking about LFL being with another man sexually, he might really get into it if, during sex, LFL erotically and breathily described a fantasy sexual encounter between herself and some safely unavailable man. Brad Pitt, or whomever.
It might work better for somebody else if the story was about Angelina Jolie, or being on a deserted tropical island...the list is endless.
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