Hi. Glad you enjoyed PJ. Figured you would. My last show was the Stones in Feb. Pretty incredible, too, from the second row behind stage, although obviously on a different level.
So isn't "cooking, cleaning, organizing, whatever" all by yourself what led to this situation in the first place, Charcoal? Along with "having the kids all night and all weekend without help"?
And your answer, Kim, is "meet all his needs and have fun doing it, too"? Am I missing something?
To my credit, when I figured out I needed to pitch in more, I did. Always was great at taking care of the kids and being there in the middle of night, and giving her time to see friends, etc., but not great with housework and cooking. Nonetheless, the changes didn't do anything but get me separated when the W said she had "tried so hard" (except for letting go of the anger and resentment, of course, and refusing to go to joint counseling). But fighting a MLC, like she is, not a lot makes sense sometimes.
I guess I'd like my W to have taken your advice, Kim, but at least I would have made some changes and deserved it, so to speak. I'm not so sure about Matt. Thoughts?
