I have found reflection to be really valuable too. When you look back you see things you missed or perhaphs saw and theought they would talk with you when they had it "sorted" out in their own heads. That may be different for men since women tend to talk alot more about things going through their heads. I don't know. In retrospect, I would have had a sit doen eye to eye (possibly bust your chops) kind of convo much earlier had I had any clue. I'm sure we all would have.
Well, I wanted to wish you a Happy New Year. I have faith it will be a good one.
