I agree. I still place a lot of blame on her bad friend. During this same time, W was wanting to spend more and more time with Bad friend in her party all the time attitude.

There are so many things that all collided to put us where we are. Within a 6 month span Business went bad and we lost our house. We bought a new house after living with a friend of mine for 4 months. I later found out that W hated the house we bought. Bad Friend came on the seen and went to work on W. Another morally questionable friend of Ws returned to the area. (This fiend would have you believe that she is very religious however she cheats on her boy friends, claims that W was right to leave because "you have to go where your heart is" and "Life is too short to be unhappy" She also believes that W should not have to tell me if something is bothering her, I should be able to read her mind. Hmmmm.... Maturity issues???). On top of all of that Ws job had her working 6 nights a week. Going away for 3 days every other month, being on the road 3 days a week while expecting her to keep up with her desk work, doing 2 special projects for work and taking a course for work.

I think all of these things have contributed to where we are today. If it was just me or if she really was a lesbian then she wouln't be treating the kids like she does (None of us have heard from her since a 5 minute phone call last thursday). There is so much more going here. Besides, there are too many coincidences here.


M35 W37
S9 D6
M12 yrs Know 15 yrs
Bomb 1/28/07
My Sitch
Failure is the opportunity to start again more intelligently - Henry Ford