WOW! Just WOW!! You have told her what you want, told her that she needs to take the action and you will be there for her. Let it sit for a few days and see if she is serious. I hate to even bring this up, but do you think she and OM had a falling out and she came running to you...
I hope not. I hope this is what we are all hoping and praying for. I want this for you.
I wouldn't contact her. I would make a serious list on what you would need to accept her back. And she (if she is willing) needs to make a list for you, what she needs from you. I can't wait to hear more.