How are differentiation and perspective control different from reality?
I dunno. Have you actually done it, or do you just talk about it? Ask Fran.
Ask LFL.
You THINK you know, and then you don't do it. You say... what will it get me? You conjecture... and you talk yourself out of it, all the while, saying, you know your spouse. I know them. it won't get me anywhere.
You're just worried about what it will get you. Thing is... it isn't about getting you anywhere. That's when you might GET somewhere.
That's the point.
I know, I know. It's NEVER about you. Ever. At least, not in your mind. And that is precisely the point.