I wouldn't tell people what is going on. They will figure it out on there own, but the more people you bring in, it will only hurt you in the long run. My family is now pushing me to leave her completely. They just don't want to see you hurt anymore, and they get tired of your complaining and just don't want to deal with it. So the easy way out for them is to say, leave it behind, move on. Because that stops you from coming to them and for them having to deal with it.
Wow Georgia is just running over Hawaii. Crap.
Sorry in front of the tube. Hehe!
IC is a great idea. Go for it, and make sure you find someone that supports what your trying to do. I would spend the first session explaining what your goals are, where your going, and if they don't agree, find someone else. But it is a great idea.