LFL? It's a sure sign of cr*ppy sex if you have to stop and ask someone if they like something. It's a sure sign of good sex if you can say with confidence "I know what you like, baby, and I'm gonna give it to you." Anyways, expecting somebody to be a mind-reader is always a losing bet.
I know what you like only last a few times for some people
If the OP is so focused to what they don't like, and they don't like a lot of things, then the game is almost surely lost.
And if the OP really doesn't like sex, or can do nicely w/o sex, then me doing almost everything right, still won't get the OP interested to the point of liking sex. They might play along out of obligation or fear of losing some other supply, the HD person furnishes.
Corri, i like the supply idea.
In BB's case, her supply is partly furnished by her dogs. As long as I supply what ever to the dogs, I have valuable to her to that degree. I have value to BB to other degrees for other things too.
I know if I said no dogs, our R would be over. I know if I said no to dogs, BB would be crushed.
Back to good or crappy sex. For me, good sex is any sex half close to what I like.
Now the supplier has a problem, as well as the one who seeks a fix. Yes, it happens that way. Two people out of what they want.
