Quote: Expectations apparently suck, right? I can't have expectations??? Is that right?
you can have expectations as long as they are reasonable...but you also can't expect someone to read your mind...
what is it you want from h?? what is it that you sought out in om??
sit for a moment and think of different reasons why h might be spending more time away..with friends...maybe he's trying to deal with the om issue and needs space...no that doesn't justify his leaving you to pull a bird outta the oven whilts holding a tike...
is there a way for you to communicate these frustrations to h without putting him in a defensive stance??
is there a way for you to address theese things without putting yourself in a defensive stance??
