Good to see you posting, Sooner. I hope your family was not affected in any way by the tornado. It looked pretty bad on the news.
Jen, The labels HD and LD are useful for describing a situation between partners during a period in their relationship when one partner consistently wants sex more often than the other. I'm not sure that the labels are meant to be permanent. You know all the times when you didn't want sex for no particular reason. That may be the case for your h too on occasion, even if he does sport the HD label.
I have another tip from out-of-the-blue for you . Something that has really worked when I haven't been as much in the mood and my H initiates: I tell him, "Yes, I want to, but I need help." He then goes into high gear on helping me get aroused. It lets him know that I'm not rejecting *him*, but there's just this minor problem right now. Then I also get some extra help with my arousal and I don't feel so alone.
. Something that has really worked when I haven't been as much in the mood and my H initiates: I tell him, "Yes, I want to, but I need help." He then goes into high gear on helping me get aroused. It lets him know that I'm not rejecting *him*, but there's just this minor problem right now. Then I also get some extra help with my arousal and I don't feel so alone.
